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ShameGameChampion

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By day, I’m basically a well-dressed hurricane—sharp-tongued, cool-headed, and terrifyingly honest. Picture a bossy librarian who moonlights as a human lie detector. I don’t sugarcoat, I salt.

But p**l back the blazer and sarcasm, and surprise! Underneath the snarky exterior lies a soft, chaotic gremlin who yearns for emotional whiplash. I crave the kind of raw, messy connection where masks melt, egos crumble, and dignity gets gently kicked in the teeth—for love, obviously.

I get it—this isn't everyone's cup of trauma-healing tea. I'm not here for small talk or performative "vibes." I want someone who gets the sacred art of power exchange—where being emotionally drop-kicked is a love language, and being deeply seen (and maybe a little roasted) is the ultimate intimacy.

About ShameGameChampion

39 Followers - 19 Following - 7 Badges

Gender: Male

Age: 40-50

Joined: 9 months ago

Profile Visits: 3660

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When you first set out to pursue your real goals in life it's normal to feel like a fraud. It's normal to feel unqualified. It's normal to feel like you're in over your head. It's normal to feel like everybody else can see through your act.

These feelings are temporary and they also aren't true.
Actively pursuing the version of yourself and your life that lives in your heart isn't what makes you a fraud.

The real fraud is the person who never tries. The real fraud is the person who plays it safe. The real fraud is the person who stifles their potential to fit in with the crowd. The real fraud is the person who settles for a life that's much less than the one they wanted. If you feel like a fraud consider it a sign that you're on the right path.

Anyone who's ever gone out and built something truly meaningful out of themselves and their life had to deal with these same thoughts and feelings in the beginning. The only difference is they kept pushing while everybody else quit or never even got started.

Make a decision about who it is you want to become and go become that person. Surrendering that dream is the only thing that will make you a real fraud.

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1.Whatever it is that you have been delaying, start it today
2.Read books and then integrate the learning by taking action
3.Avoid taking advice from broke folk on how to grow wealth
4.Pick a spouse or partner that supports your work or purpose
5.Fail as many times as you need. Give up never times.
6.Take responsibility for your circumstances
7.Take responsibility for your actions
8.Don’t rely on the government or anyone else to save you
9.Value your opinions over others
10.Be proactive and find solutions instead of complaining
11.Recognize and accept that the world can sometimes be cruel and unfair
12.Embrace and befriend discomfort
13.Strive for excellence not mediocrity
14.Keep promises and honor commitments
15,.Take action regardless of the conditions
16.Prioritize being wealthy over looking wealthy
17.Work on what matters most
18.Be productive and accomplish meaningful things
19.Do what you say youre going to do
20.Don’t follow the crowd if you want exceptional results
21.Do whatever it takes rather than good enough
22.Action over talking
23.Don’t keep starting new things without finishing them
24.Learn from mistakes, avoid repeating them
25.Find something that works and continue doing it
26.Be curious over always being right
27.Don’t take things personally
28.Spend less than you make
29.Be decisive
30.Don’t look down on unsuccessful people, look up to where you want to be
31.Do the opposite over what everyone else is doing
32.Do what makes you happy
33.Value education over a short-term fix of entertainment
34.Show up on time or early
35.Always prepare
36.Don’t make the same mistake that others are making
37.Believe what people do over what people say
38. Nobody needs to lose for us to win.

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When most people ask for advice...
They aren't actually seeking the truth.
They are seeking validation.
They want someone to tell them they're right.
They want someone to confirm their beliefs.
They want someone to stroke their ego and because they refuse to look outside of their current beliefs to find the truth...
They stay stuck exactly where they are in life forever.
Winners seek the truth.
They don't want to be told what they're doing right...
They want to be told what they're doing wrong so they can improve.
That's the difference.
Yes ... The truth may hurt.
It may bruise your ego.
It may force you to admit you were wrong.
...but it's also what you need to hear if you're ever going to get better.
Embrace the truth and it will set you free.
Seek validation and it will continue to serve you the same crap you've always gotten.

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Never allow your emotions to influence your decision-making process.
Every single time I've made decisions based on how I've felt...
I made the wrong choice.
When you're emotionally attached to an outcome...
It's nearly impossible to see the situation clearly.
Your emotions lie to you.
They tell you falsehoods to protect you from uncomfortable realities.
But if you're looking to produce a specific result...
You have to learn to detach yourself from emotion and evaluate the facts.
Slow down.
Step back.
Push your feelings aside.
Seek the truth.
Make a decision based on logic and reasoning.
Doing so will save you an immense amount of time, money, and frustration.

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I’ve become a quitter as I’ve gotten older. I used to believe it was best to see every commitment through. But my perspective has changed on this. I'm moving less on that old programing and principal and more on common sense, instincts and interpreting what I'm seeing in others.

So I started quitting.

👎I quit books that take too long to make a point.

👎I quit being a customer of businesses that treat me like the promise they made to start our relationship no longer exists.

👎I quit saying yes because I'm bored.

👎I quit patiently waiting when clients don't pay on time.

👎I quit meeting with people who don't take responsibility for their life.

👎I quit giving attention to those that just want something from me.
👎I quit helping everyone else over tending to my business needs.
👎I quit when I see someone is the wrong fit, regardless of the reason.
👎I quit dimming my light or energy because it makes others feel a certain way.
👎I quit blaming others when I get taken advantage of.
👎I quit slowing down when others can't keep up.

Why?

Because I continue to realize the most valuable resource I own is my time, and I’m responsible for stewarding it well.

I’m only given a limited number of yeses.
So I quit to make room for the ones that are most valuable to me.
People will show you who they are overtime, BELIEVE THEM and adjust accordingly.
If you find yourself in the same "situations" over and over again, there is a common thread. Take the time to realize what YOU need to do differently.

Some of the quitting has been easy.
Some has been tough.
It turns out I still hate disappointing people.
I believe in people so much, I want to give them the benefit of the doubt.
But not when I'm disrespected.
Or when staying causes me to disrespect myself.
I'm on this journey too and am constantly taking inventory of myself.
"You can only lead to the level of discipline in which you live."
I read this every single day and ask myself, "where do I need to continue to adjust to ensure I am leading YOU to the best of my abilities? Where do I need to live better?"
We are all leaders. Before we can lead anyone else, we must lead ourselves first.

Here is what I have found after quitting more.
I’ve found I can be more generous with the people and organizations I love.
I rest more deeply.

I work with people who are ready—not just curious.

And I build my days around purpose, not pressure.

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We all have two lives, and the second begins when you make peace with what didn’t work out because now you know you deserve better.
Real peace doesn’t come from never knowing pain. It comes from refusing to let it write your next chapter.
But that pain points you toward peace, and one day the tables will turn. You’ll wake up to a life so fulfilling, it feels like the universe is thanking you for not giving up.
People will never know the countless battles you fought and won alone to find so much peace within yourself, but please honor the strength it took for you to come out the other side. You chose the peace of healing over the emptiness of staying in a one-sided relationship. You chose what sets your soul on fire instead of what makes sense on paper. That’s strength
What’s next is the life you always wanted, built by the version of you who knows you deserve it.

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She said, “Do you like pain?” I said, “Yeah, I still root for the Knicks.”

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Tried BDSM once. Turns out 'being tied down' just reminded me of my student loans.

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There are days fortune may favor you.
There are days fortune may oppose you.
It makes zero difference.
Your duty remains the same.
Fight.
Push through.
Overcome.
That's what you are here to show the world.
That's what you are here to show yourself.
No matter what the world throws at you
Remember:
The mission doesn't change when the circumstances do.

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THREE THINGS FOR YOU TO THINK ABOUT

Every confident person still feels insecure.
Every successful person still fails.
Every happy person still struggles.

Don’t mistake outside appearances for internal realities.

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When the voice in your head and the vision in your heart grow louder and stronger than the opinions around you...
You begin to take control of your life.
It's important you find the courage to become that badass motherfucker that lives inside you that only you know exists.
That's what you were put here to become.
Go become it.

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I didn’t grow up hearing “I love you” or “I’m proud of you” all that often.
That’s not meant to sound tragic, it’s just the truth for a lot of us.

But the older I get, the more I understand the weight those words carry. Especially when there’s no achievement to show for them. No gold star. No big win.
Just presence. Just effort. Just survival.

We’re quick to say “Drive safe,” “Take care,” or “Let me know you got home.”
But how often do we stop and really see someone?
How often do we send a simple text, look someone in the eye, and say:
“I’m proud of you.”

Not because they did something spectacular.
But because they’re still here.
Still standing.
Still trying.

I’ve had to spend years becoming the voice I never heard.
Learning how to offer love and validation to myself and others even when no one claps.
Even when no one notices.

So here’s my question this Sunday:
Do the people you love know you’re proud of them?

Not just when it’s easy.
Not just when they’re thriving.
But when they’re hurting. When they’re unraveling. When they’re convinced they’re not enough.

That’s when it matters most.
That’s when those words stop being just words
And start becoming lifelines.

So say them.
Say them now.

Let someone hear:
“You matter. I see you. I’m proud of you. Just as you are.”

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I'm perfectly normal on the outside and absolutely wrecked on the inside, like a piñata filled with unpaid bills and childhood trauma instead of candy." 🍬💀

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Your mind will either build your life or destroy it.
Some days you wake up and everything feels perfect.
Your energy is high.
Your confidence is through the roof.
You feel unstoppable.
Other days you wake up and everything feels like shit.
You're irritated by everything.
You have no energy.
Nothing seems to be worth the effort.
You want to quit.
But in both of these mental states...
It can be easy to form unrealistic beliefs and expectations about the reality of the situation in front of us.
As soon as our expectations aren't met...
We're faced with massive disappointment.
Don't live your entire life as a prisoner of your own thoughts.
You have to learn to quiet your mind.
Take a step back.
Detach yourself from your emotions.
Focus on what's real.
Not what you think is real.
Not what you feel is real.
What is actually real.
Make a plan.
Execute.
We all have good days.
We all have bad days.
Train yourself to stay focused regardless of how you feel.
A quiet and focused mind will be your greatest weapon.

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The average person spends 2 1/2 hours on social media every day.
That's over 17 hours a week on a phone screen. The irony is these are all the same people who bitch about how they "don't have the time" to do the things to move themselves forward in life.

Now consider this in your own life. Do you really not have the time? or are you just using your time ineffectively?

99 times out of 100
It's the latter.
Audit how you're spending your time.
You have the same 24 hours as everybody else.

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People don't have to like you.
Know who you are.
Act accordingly.
If you do that
You will like you.
That's all that matters.

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Being good to people is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Not performative.Not fake.
Not because you’re trying to look like a good person.
Because you remember what it feels like to need it.
People are struggling.People are hurting.
People are barely holding it together behind the smile they’ve learned how to wear.
Some have been kicked so many times by life they’ve stopped getting back up.
Maybe you’ve been there too. Maybe you remember what it feels like to not want to try anymore…feel like nothing’s working.
…like no one sees you.
…like no one cares.
That feeling sticks. That’s why kindness isn’t weakness.
It’s strength with awareness. A kind word. A real compliment.
A simple act of respect. They cost you nothing…
…but for someone else they might shift the entire trajectory of their day.
Or their week.
Or their life.
This isn’t about being “nice.”
This is about being human.
This is about remembering that power doesn’t just show up through force ... sometimes it shows up through grace.
So go out of your way.
Treat people with honor.
Lift someone up when they least expect it.
Because doing good and being good…
That doesn’t make you soft.
It makes you rare.
What is in it for you?
Peace.
Perspective.
…and pride in knowing you are doing what you can to give people hope.
By doing so…
You don’t just change their life.
You change your own.

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Everybody knows they need to exercise and fuel their body with the right food and nutrients to get the body they want...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to read, study, research, and apply this knowledge and wisdom to their life to make progress...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to show up every day, work their fucking ass off, and execute to the highest standard possible to eventually win...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to embrace the uncomfortable tasks and put themselves as close to the fire as possible to build the grit and strength to become a weapon...
But how many do it?
We all know what we're "supposed to do".
...But having that knowledge alone is irrelevant.
If there's something you know that you need to do...
Why haven't you been doing it?
Everyone is quick to raise their hand and say "I want to be successful."
Very few are willing back it up through execution.
Are you?
You can wish in one hand and shit in the other.
Only one has substance.
Remember that.

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